Respect. Intention. Connection.

New Yorker's Favorite E.N.M. Dating App

Personalized Matchmaking

Tailored introductions that align with your desires and relationship style, thoughtfully matched by real people who understand your needs.

For True Explorers

Designed exclusively for those embracing Ethical Non-Monogamy. Engage in curated dates, and exclusive NYC events designed to foster genuine connections.

Private Community

Join a trusted network of like-minded individuals, sharing experiences and insights. Your information is confidential—because your journey is yours to own.

Lust in the city that never sleeps

Welcome to Lust, where New York City celebrates the beauty of ethical non-monogamy. Our app offers a safe and vibrant space for individuals and couples to explore, connect, and grow. Whether you're new to Ethical Non-Monogamy or a seasoned explorer, you'll find community, understanding, and meaningful connections here.

What Our Members Say

See how Lust has revolutionized the dating horizons of New Yorkers

"I appreciate the thoughtful approach, it's really unique and refreshing. Finally, a dating platform that aligns with my values and lifestyle."
- Alex, 38, Midtown West

"LUST.NYC transformed how I approach ethical non-monogamy in the city. The personalized attention makes all the difference."
- Sarah, 32, Brooklyn

"LUST.NYC has given me what no app ever could, truly personal and compatible matches. 10/10!"
- Jessy 27, Kips Bay

"Lust.NYC introduced me to partners who truly understand the beauty of ENM. I’ve never felt more seen. Thank you, Lust.NYC!"
Taylor, 37, Brooklyn

What sets Lust apart:

  Ready to rewrite the rules of lust?

Safety First

Your Safety Matters. We prioritize your safety with stringent security measures, so you can focus on building authentic connections worry-free.

What is ENM?

Ethical Non-Monogamy is a lifestyle that values honesty, communication, and mutual respect. It's about embracing love and intimacy in all its forms.

How Does it Work?

Our platform connects like-minded individuals and couples who share your values and desires. Our manual matchmaking process ensures that every connection is thoughtful and meaningful.

Ready to Explore?

Sign up for Lust access and be part of a community that's redefining the boundaries of love and relationships.

Someone to
Match Your Freak

Start your journey with Lust and take the first step towards elevating your connections with handpicked preference-based matches. Lust is just a click away.

Lust Events

Discover our diverse lineup of pop-up experiences across New York City! From engaging social gatherings and innovative cocktail workshops to exciting collaborations and unique E.N.M. events, we offer something for everyone seeking lust.